Hi my Mum was diagnosed 18mths ago with Non small cell cancer she was given radiotherapy as to frail for op or chemo she is 81. We were told in March it has spread to lymph nodes again to frail for any treatment so just palliative I am only carer but finding so hard no one to turn to she is now only 6st 5 and getting more pain don't know what to do feel as if I am second guessing all the time when she is not well.