My dad has just been diagnosed with terminal bowel/bladder cancer with weeks left ,and we cant have a mcmillan nurse so have a palliative nurse weve had to push her to come out to meet dad (total ppe) to which the doctor had already asked mum about his dying wishes over the phone that nurse should have asked her (mum was taken aback and shocked) then dr asked if nurse had spoken to us about counselling -no . on the meeting my sister thought i was going to lamp her as she wanted to rip up my dads second respect form as she wrote on the spare one (its still my dads :angry: . and asking about if she was there to emothionally support us ,she went off on a tanggent , I just wanted to know what other peoples palliative nures are like and how ofhen they come out, Dad has been at home since the 4.5 .20 .