Hi can someone please help I'm caring for my mum at home as my dad can not physically help as he has his own health problems and my mum and I stayed at a hospice for three days this week and was told there wasn't anymore they can do and my mum wants to die at home so we came home she is at the moment completely out of it not able to even awake long enough to drink a cup of tea all I need to know is this normal mum has lung cancer and has spread to other lung and lymph nodes she is so confused and gets extremely frustrated cause she can't say what she wants to her memory has gone completely I know this is palliative care now but we don't seem to get told what to expect I know everyone is different