I may not be the best person to give advice but I will have a try.  You will want to know how far the cancer has progressed and to what stage.   What options are possible for treatment and what percentage of success would be expected?  These - I would have thought - are the main questions and further questions would depend on the answers to them.  Take a notebook or piece of paper so you can jot down notes so that you don't forget anything important.    I am not the most knowledgeable person here by any stretch of the imagination but as you are going to see the consultant today I thought that someone should perhaps respond asap.

This reply is a bit back to front.  I want to say how sorry I am that you are in this situation after having already been through the mill a couple of years ago.  Please do come back and tell us how the discussion went (if you feel up to doing so); I and others here can then chat further.  Annie

Thank you for your reply Annie, Well I dident find out much yesterday as it will all depend on the PET scan which i'm having tomorrow, All I know is it's in my windpipe now, i'm praying to be be here when my Grandchildren !!! yep Grandchildren are born , My Son called from having there scan this morning to tell us they are expecting twins, they have been trying for so many years, so much to look forward to but with all this sadness now , seems life gives with one hand and takes with another, but if i dont make it I will know he has the Family he so desperatly wanted. No doubt i eill be back with more questions as the treatment starts ,Thank you for a wonderful site which helps us all in our hours of need.

Susan