Lost my Dad to Anaplastic thyroid cancer.

We lost my Dad on Friday lunchtime after a short but terrible fight with cancer, this particular form is very rare and by the time the symptoms presented themselves it was too late for any treatment. From diagnosis to his passing was just 7 weeks, what made it worse was the speed that it took hold of him. We had maybe two weeks with him before he went rapidly downhill. My mother did an unbeliveable job in caring for him at home and it was only for the final 48 hours that she had to hand him over to the hospital. I will never know where she gained the strength from to deal with this awful disease. The only comfort that I can take is that he died with my mum, sister and granchildren around him. 

It is so hard to believe that the kind, caring and loving soul that I was lucky enough to call Dad has now gone and he will be missed more than he could ever have known.

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    Hello Verve,

    I am so sorry to hear about your Dad's passing And I extend my sincere sympathy to you and your family.

    This must have hit the family like a whirlwind. Seven weeks from diagnosis to loss is extremely quick and, I would imagine, very difficult to come to terms with.

    I lost my own Mum to breast cancer secondaries some years ago. She survived for 12 years from diagnosis. It was only in her last year that she was told she had metastases in liver, lungs, brain and bones and she deteriorated very quickly after that. I still miss her every day, but I am glad that she is no longer suffering and in pain.

    Your Mum did incredibly well to look after him at home until the last couple of days, but it was good that he was in the bosom of his family when he passed.

    I am thinking and praying for you and your family.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • I am sorry to hear of your fathers ilness, nothing can take the pain away.

    i have just lost my husband to an anaplastic Thyroid Cancer, a very cruel disease. He was diagnosed in June 2018 after having some ear pain and a hoarse voice, but was not unwell. He saw an ear nose and throat consultant who sent in for a scan, within two weeks we had the devastating diagnosis and we were told he only had months to live. He lived for 6 months, he fought the disease with such curage and never complained other than not wanting to die and leave his family.

    I was fortunate to care for him for the last two weeks of his life, caring for his every need, he died at home which is what he wanted with me and the family at his side.

    He was a much loved husband, dad and granddad and we all miss him a great deal.

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    My father was diagnosed a month ago with anaplastic Thyroid Cancer. Understandably he doesin't really want to talk about what is coming. I don't really know what to expect, and how to prepare him and ourselves. Having trouble finding helpful information and the medical world has no miracles for us.

     

    Any helpful information whould be much appreciated to better understand what we are in for.