Welcome to Cancer Chat, Sharonpink1967, although I’m sorry for the reason that brought you here.

Looking after loved ones who are going through cancer is something that many of our members can relate to so I hope some of them will soon be along shortly to share their experiences with you and give some advice.

In the meantime, our nurses are available on this phone number 0808 800 4040, Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. if you think speaking to someone medically trained might help.

Best wishes,

Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator

Hi

thank you for that.Is my post on a forum as it's my first time on here and was hoping someone might respond??

thanks again

Hi 

My mum is the same. She is trying to protect me I think. She is terminally ill. Is so hard as you have lots of pieces of the jigsaw but not all the answers. I dont have any answers for you either as how to best feal with this. I try my best to put my agenda to the nack of my mind and focus on mum. Sorry this isnt much help. I feel your frustarations x

Hi 

thank you for posting and I am sorry to hear your sad news also. I am finding myself having bad dreams every night and they are always about her death/funeral.We are very close as I am the baby if the family at 50! I have 3 older brothers who haven't had the same relationship I have shared with her. I hope we can support each other through this sad time n thanks sgain

sharon