My mother who is only 49 has recently been diagnosed with cancer and very soon later told it was told it was terminal as they can not find the primary.
At first i was at a loss, and struggled *still struggling* to cope with the news.
My mother however seems positive in everything she can make herself do. She's refusing to let this best her and i too am celebrating everything she triumphs in.
The rest of my family however treat her with kidgloves, all conversations about her are downhearted, depressing or about the worse and never once talk about what she is achieving.
Am i wrong staying positive and keeping my mother positive? I am scared i am giving her hope and unsure if you could miraculously turn a terminal diagnosis or is the enthusiasm to keep her old life is spurring her on.
