Hi so sorry to hear about both your dad's. So sad,my mum has lung cancer  she was diagnosed at the beginning of March 2 days before my dad's funeral.  She is too weak to have a biopsy. They said looking at the scan it is stage 2 and its in her lymph nodes aswell. But can't say how aggressive it is.... she sleeps all day only getting up for the toilet but can't walk after having two falls on Monday so sad to watch an  looks so lost.

I know how you're feeling, my Dad is in a similar boat too - just be with him as much as possible! There is not much else you can do, but being there with him will be of comfort to him.

message me if you ever need someone to talk to, I wish you the best xx

To all you lovely people I'm so sorry to hear you are losing a parent. Whilst everyone's end is different to each other there are lots of similarities. If you go on the Macmillan website they have some pages 'what to expect in the end' I found them to be quite accurate in what my dad experienced near the end in general terms.

Hi sugar, I just wanted to say your not alone. Your dad has the best people taking care of him and that includes you. Please remember to take care of you too. Being there for him in sure means the world to him. I no he's very poorly, but you can only be you and be the person he brought you up to be! I bet he's so proud! Your not alone, give me a shout for a moan if needed. I lost my dad 6 years ago, life can be pants to say the least, but we're here for you xx donna xx