We simply graduate from this testing ground of misery, worry, pain, and insecurity. We either come here to suffer to learn our lessons, or suffer to teach what we know, but this -earth- is the plain of suffering and thank God its not permanent! How long does the workday seem to you. Earth life is the long work day. We all came here to suffer in one way or another, and one day, for ALL of us the workday will end. It doesn't feel like it here, because we came here to suffer, but there is a place where we will go that will never end, and there will be no suffering. We will heal from this. Open your mind even if only for a second. If your suffering, your doing it right! Emotional, Mental, Physical, sometimes all. Its OK. This life is one long workday in the big picture of our entire and endless existence. I am not telling you anything that I dont tell myself every day, and everyone I love most. I have a big, LOUD conscience. Hang in there, and keep caring about everything you do. Don't ever decide to turn cold. I send this message out with the hope to keep all of us who have or had or know someone with cancer or anything potentially life ending together caring, striving, to get through it all and finish right side up. Balance emotion and logic, and hold on tight to those who can't. If you pray, pray for everyone who feels exactly like you do and worse. You are never alone...and neither am I.