Hello. My dad also has terminal cancer. I'm 16 and he's only 44, they reckon he only has a few months left. It's hard but you have to try and be strong for your family, my and my dad are also very close. Try and speak to people about your feelings, that's what's keeping me kind of strong. 

Im so sory my dad has cancer in throat and liver and like u its dreadful to see my dad wasting away I'm completely lost my dad is amazing man and No think I can do cancer is the worst I've had the worst Xmas ever my so and wife  has just had a baby and it's such a bitter sweet pill his name is lenny after my dad and my dad saw him today I wish my dad could of held him but too weak cancer yr a ***  I hope one day we wil beat u ruby 

Hi Becca

Im going through the same journey . In December my dad was told he had kidney cancer in December . Was told by MK hospital that it hadn't spread and that he will be referred to Oxford hospital just to get medication to shrink the tumour . He went on his own due to covid , hearing not good and doctors wearing masks is even harder . He was told on his own that they couldn't cure the cancer  but try and slow it down . There are no words to say how he felt and how the family felt . It wa alike being hit by a bus , unbelievable pain . He started immunotherapy but unfortunately it didn't work and the cancer has spread more . On a new medication again to slow it down . However,  I have the shadow of a man in front of me which is heartbreaking . I have good days and bad days selfishley I'm trying everything I can for him . Acupuncture, different alternative medication. I'm just so desperate. However , sometimes I just need to stop and think , is all this just to much for dad ? Who knows the answer ? Just don't want to see dad in pain