Hello Rhubarb dragon

All I can do is send you a big virtual hug for all the support you give members on this forum whilst supporting your own husband through a very difficult time. Yes cancer sucks and anticipatory grief becomes very real as time progresses. I know how loved ones suffer as much as the one with cancer. Ive had an unusually bad day today but keep up hope tomorrow will be a better day for both you and me and everyone going through this 

Ed

Hello Ed 

Thank you for taking time to reply especially as you say you are having a really bad day too.

Sending you a hug and hope you get some decent rest tonight and tomorrow as you say is brighter for you too 

Kindest wishes RB

Hi Rhubarbdragon.  Yes I agree cancer sucks, it really does.  I  have read your posts helping and supporting others on this forum whilst you are looking after your husband.  Like Ed I wanted to say hope today is a better day.  Please know that we are all here for you.  Sending you hugs.

Lee x

Hi Lee 

Thank you for your kind words I really appreciate them 

Along with Ed you have made me feel heard and supported today.

Cancer really does suck.

But in this dark place there are people who shine a light and help us keep going when we feel defeated...

Thank you Lee  and Ed and anyone who follows on ....together we are stronger ...

Sending hugs to all

Rb

Good morning Rb,  I just wanted to say you are one of the people who shine a light.  I like reading your inspirational and supportive messages.  So when you need a hand, we are here for you.

Lee x

Hi Rhubarbdragon

A kind word on this forum really does go a long way in bringing some comfort to those seeking help or information. Your replies are likely appreciated by not only those you are replying to but casual readers with similar problems. A shame some do not bother to acknowledge the effort you've taken to post a reply, but there. Wish you and your husband an easy day if possible. Ive managed a reasonable pain free  nights sleep so today should go ok. 

Ed

Hi Lee

I hope your appointment with the oncologist today goes well, it is always disconcerting when they call you in at short notice but often it is just that they have a free slot due to a cancellation and it gives them a chance to review how you are getting on. Ive only got a routine blood test today ahead of treatment and had a pain free nights sleep so a better day in store plus sun is out. All the best lee for your appointment

Ed

Hi Ed,  thank you for your kind message and thankfully it was exactly as you said.  So now can breathe again.  Thank you once again.

Lee x

Hi Lee 

Thank you. Im glad we can all help support each other its really helped this last few days hearing your kind words.

i hope your appt went well today and you got helpful news.

Sending strength

1. RB