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Last month I was told by my consultant that I have between 6 - 12 months to live.

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  1. I'm trying to sort out all of my things, eg paperwork, clothes etc..... so that my partner doesn't have to deal with it all when I am no longer here. But I find I start sorting things out, then get upset and find that I have even more of a mess. Also what if the consultant is wrong, that I don't actually have that length of time, but have less.

            I would be grateful for any input.

            Thank you ever so much.

             Yofi. X

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    Hello Yofi,

                      how do you find the stability to deal with the position you face?, l suspect that is in time and that is what your doctor has sought to give you .Its a bestimate based upon previous experience and a pointer to the severity of the challenge you face.This said it is simply an overview of the average, and you have to remember that each individual only makes up part of the average and in no way average themselves. 

    You are asking the how long is my piece of string question to which none of us would have the answer until measured after the event. Your choice now lies between worrying and stressing about the unknown or taking the very best out of each new day as you face it.The last option seems much more preferable since it does not come with any indications as to time.

    Don't go wasting your time looking for your string, and l hope that it proves to be a very long length for you,

    David

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    Hello Yofi,

                      how do you find the stability to deal with the position you face?, l suspect that is in time and that is what your doctor has sought to give you .Its a bestimate based upon previous experience and a pointer to the severity of the challenge you face.This said it is simply an overview of the average, and you have to remember that each individual only makes up part of the average and in no way average themselves. 

    You are asking the how long is my piece of string question to which none of us would have the answer until measured after the event. Your choice now lies between worrying and stressing about the unknown or taking the very best out of each new day as you face it.The last option seems much more preferable since it does not come with any indications as to time.

    Don't go wasting your time looking for your string, and l hope that it proves to be a very long length for you,

    David

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