Hello Zillah

I'm sorry to hear that your hubby has been diagnosed with cancer for a third time. I can only imagine what a blow that has been to you both and it's understandable that he feels that he's not able to face any further treatment at this point. How are you feeling about this choice? 

It's good to hear that he's been referred to the palliative care team. Have you had contact with them? Even if your husband doesn't need direct care or input from them at the moment, they can be a helpful source of support and information for you both. Has he been given any further appointments with any health professionals or do you have a contact number that you can call if you need to contact someone? 

Don't forget that the GP surgery can also contact the palliative care team on your behalf if you don't have an appointment or contact details for them. 

If it would be helpful to talk with one of our nurses for some advice and support you can call them on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm (excluding bank holidays). I know they will be happy to listen and offer any advice, information and support they can. 

I hope that you have family and friends around you who can offer support as you both navigate your way through this difficult time. Keep in touch with us here at Cancer Chat if it helps to have somewhere to put down in writing how you're feeling. We're here for you. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator