My Mum was diagnosed yesterday with inoperable brain cancer 3 months left to live

My Mum who up until 10 days ago was fit and healthy, walked 5 miles no issues loved getting out and about was diagnosed yesterday with inoperable brain cancer and given 3 months to live.

obviously she is going to decline during that period, i want her last three months to be amazing, and while she can experience life to the full. 

I am after ideas, anything, bucket list of what anyone can think of, that is realistically achievable, which probably rules out flights abroad,. i live in the middle of the country if that helps.

yes she has a loving family and yes we are there for her and yes we will hold her hand and tell we wouldn't be who we are without her and we lover her dearly, but we would also like to make some last few amazing memories, not because it's what we want but because it's what she deserves.

so any ideas, lay them out here

Thanks in advance.

  • A warm welcome to Cancer Chat, RogueDice.
    I’m sorry to hear about your mum’s diagnosis, and I can only imagine how difficult this time must be for you and your family.
    It's clear from your message just how much love and care you have for her, and it's inspiring to see your determination to make the most of the time you have together. Creating lasting memories during this time is such a thoughtful way to approach things, and while everyone's situation is different, I'm sure others here will be able to share ideas or experiences that might be helpful.
    If you’re looking for more resources or advice on supporting a loved one through this challenging time, you might find this page from Cancer Research UK helpful: Caring for the Carer. It offers support and practical suggestions for carers, helping to make sure you're looking after yourself as well as your mum, so you can be there for her in the best way possible.
    If you’d like, feel free to share more about what your mum enjoys, and maybe others here can suggest ideas for meaningful activities you can do together. Whether it’s simple things like enjoying a lovely walk in a favourite spot or something creative, you’re sure to make precious memories.
    Sending you and your family all the best during this time,
    Take care,
    Renata, Cancer Chat moderator
  • Hi sorry to hear of your sad news . My partner on palliative care and been given weeks not months although Noone never knows how long .. we brought christmas forward so was thinking that is maybe one thing you could possibly think about x