My grandad who has been a father to me growing up has been diagnosed with liver and spinal cancer. He’s currently in hospital as one of his tumours is in the nerves and at risk of paralysis. He’s been poorly for months but was ignored for the past 5 months. Doctors kept putting it down to age and just wouldn’t listen.
He was finally sent for tests that shown what we were dreding. He’s currently lay in a neck brace, high as a kite and the specialist are still trying to decide what to do due to his health and the location of one in particular in regards to surgery . There’s talk about possibly having a session of chemotherapy tomorrow. Still waiting to find out.
He is slowly becoming a shadow of himself, my 9 year old daughter dotes on him. I just don’t know how to approach any of this with her. She asking questions, she can tell grandad doesn’t just have a tummy bug.
I'm lost, im lost for my nan and my daughter. He means so much to us all. I just don’t know what to do.
any advice