I found out today that my Dad has terminal cancer and has a few months to live. At first I was numb, but after listening to one of my Dad’s old voicemails I’ve gone to bits and feel so upset. It’s such a weird feeling - I can only describe it as a constant feeling of sickness or anxiousness.
I just feel so sorry for him. He’s so poorly and he just wants to get better for for his wife and my sister. I’m 24 and he’s 66 and it just feels all too soon.
I don't really have any questions. I’ve just found it helpful reading other people’s responses and how they ensured the best possible final moments with their loved ones. At the moment I have feelings of regret (for example, I should have done “x” more when he was well). Any advice on how to deal with this would be much appreciated.
I’m so sorry for anyone supporting a loved one with Cancer, and of course those who are suffering.