Hi craned64

My dad had similar treatments as your husband and it sounds like he had a similar emotional reaction - pushing away people who care about him. It sounds, however, like he is not pushing you away. You could ask him very calmly why he is behaving towards your children in that way. It could be that subconsciously he is trying to protect them.

Regarding managing symptoms - dad wanted to be at home so we cared for him there. He wore incontinence pants to remove the worry about not making it to the toilet, although he did manage to go to the loo. Hopefully the driver is supplying your husband with anti-vomiting medication as well as pain relief. If his chemo changed recently, it could be a reaction to that - check with his oncologist if the dose could be changed to make it more tolerable.

Be proud that you are managing all this! All of the focus is on your husband and I bet very few people ask how you are!! Know that you are not alone and if you need help, please do ask for it (Macmillan, a local hospice charity, etc)

All the best for you and your family

Sarah

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I would just like to thank you both for your helpful advice, my husband is now back from hospital at home with us, but the news is not good,  my family and I are absolutely devastated by the time we have left to care and love him,we have only up to 3 weeks it could be only days we have been told, our hearts have been shattered into piece s every day I pray for a miracle to happen ️

Craned64,

I have just read your post and wanted to send you and your family love and strength for the days and weeks ahead xx

Craned64,

I have just read your post and wanted to send you and your family love and strength for the days and weeks ahead xx