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dad is terminally ill, my mum is refusing to let us see him

Sssstacey
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Hi,

 My mum has unfortunately always been controlling and manipulative. Since dads terminal diagnosis she is refusing to allow myself or my siblings to see him. This is despite him saying he wants to see us before he goes. 
She has taken control of his mobile phone and refuses to leave his side, she's said if he attempts to contact us she will refuse to look after him. 
I don't know if anyone would know the answer but can she legally do this ?  I am really at a loss what to do. 

  • Welcome to the forum Sssstacey although I'm very sorry to hear about your dad. This must be a very upsetting and difficult time.

    Unfortunately we cannot provide legal advice or comment on the legality of the action however, you could get in touch with your local police force on 101, or online, to raise your concerns and discuss the situation further.

    You may also be able to get advice from adult services in your local area or Citizen's Advice. This independent organisation specialises in confidential information and advice to assist people with their problems, including legal issues, so they may be able to put you in contact with legal professionals that specialise in family or medical law. 

    We hope this helps and you're able to get this resolved soon.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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