My dads not getting treatment

Just looking for a bit of support my dad got diagnosed with lung and brain tumours in May. The doctors said that he was young enough and he deserved treatment which he was so happy about. He had an appointment for Wednesday to find out his treatment plan and get going unfortunately he got admitted into hospital on Saturday after getting a bad chest infection so they done some scans and said they wanted to transfer him to another hospital for brain surgery which he was happy to do anything to remove the tumour but today the doctor came to his bed side and said he was no longer being transferred and he wasn't getting brain surgery or chemotherapy. He was so gutted he cried I've never saw him cry it was heartbreaking doctors said he's to go home and we've to make him as comfortable as possible I just feel we've had so much false hope. The family's emotions have been up and down and now I feel there's no hope does anyone have any advice please I'm so worried and the thought of watching him deteriorate is killing me inside. Michelle 

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  • Sorry to hear this my mum passed away with lung cancer that has spread to her brain 2 years ago. She was only 63.

    all can advise is say everything you want to say to him and let him know you love him. Don't hold back on anything that you will regret not saying. Spend plenty of time with him too! 
    if he's still able, go on trips out and make few more memories together x 

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  • Sorry to hear this my mum passed away with lung cancer that has spread to her brain 2 years ago. She was only 63.

    all can advise is say everything you want to say to him and let him know you love him. Don't hold back on anything that you will regret not saying. Spend plenty of time with him too! 
    if he's still able, go on trips out and make few more memories together x 

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