Just read your post and I'm so sorry you are all going through this. 

Im 32 with 2 young children and was diagnosed with triple positive breast cancer last month. I should be starting chemotherapy in the next 2 weeks. 

I have read a few stories about young women going to the doctors about breast concerns and they are just shrugged off because they're "too young to have cancer". It is absolutely diabolical and something that desperately needs to be sorted out. 

It is very difficult to keep positive, especially at the start, all the waiting drives me crazy and gets your mind wandering to some dark places. 

It's so lovely that you have stayed with your daughter since the diagnosis, you will be a pillar of strength for her.

All I can say is that she needs to just take it one step at a time, one test at a time, and focus on the end goal.....to get through the treatment, as horrid as it will be, but she will make it out for her children. 

If you or she needs to chat you can message me as we are all going through this together. I've found speaking to people who are going through the same thing has helped me so much.

Keep your head up and keep staying positive for her, and she will follow your example. We've all got this together 

Amy x

Hi, so sorry to hear your daughter and you are going through this, ive been there with my own daughter, diagnosed in her 30`s with 2 young children, her diagnosis was the worst day of our lives, a huge shock and terrifying, but a year later, she has gotten through all the treatments, chemo, rads and operation (lumpectomy) and apart from immune therapy she is done with all that, she is doing great right now and looks beautiful , post chemo lovely thick curly hair, looks very cute :-) it was a very difficult time, im not going to lie, full of ups and downs, lots of tears and feeling terrified all the time, even now this  never goes away, i dont think it ever will, as a mum i just wish it had been me and not her, but it is what it is, and we have gotten through with her bravery and the support of people we love......you will too...feel free to message me anytime, am here to help if i can, i wish you all the very best and stay positive, dont listen to negatives, be there for her, she will need all the support she can get, and believe that she can beat this and be just fine again because she can  xxx.

Thankyou, i know that  at the beginning it feels like youve been hit by a sledgehammer, but  your daughter obviously has a loving and supportive mum in you and she will be ok,  take one day at a time, dont stress and deal with everything when it comes,  remember "this too shall pass"....sending much love and good wishes to you both, im very happy to talk to you should you need to chat anytime  :-) xxx

Thank you so much xx

Hi so sorry to hear your sad news .the waiting is the worst . Once treatment starts you go on a rollercoaster ride .take one day at a time .i had bteastcancer in 2017 had lumpectomy  and radiotherapy.  Have cancer tablets for five years ..you will get throughthis sending you all big hugs