Hello,

I read your post and just had to reply. My thoughts are with you and sending love to you and your family. 
 

 I lost my dad very suddenly at the end of September, it still feels like yesterday. He had a sore hip and chest quite all of a sudden, he went to the doctors and they sent him for a broncoscopy to see what was going on. From this he developed pneumonia and was gone within 5 days. We only got the diagnosis of stage 4 lung cancer which had spread to the bone once he had passed away.

I was on holiday and never got to say goodbye so it's really special you were there for your mum. You said that you had said to your mum 'is he there' I wondered what you meant by that and whether she may have seen a loved one and looked peaceful before she went. That would give me so much comfort too, searching for a peaceful thought of my dad now he's gone.

Here to talk more if you'd like to, I know the pain oh so well of losing a parent you love.

sending strength, 

Hannah xxx

So Sorry to read this. So incredibly sad.  Thinking of you 

I'm so sorry for your loss, I lost my step dad 20 yrs ago he was the love of mums life, throughout the day she passed the room fielt like it filled up almost especially the 2 hrs prior to her passing, it felt very crowded although her room was big and there was only 5 inc mum in the room, we had been smelling cigarette smoke also (my dad smoked) and a flowery purfume, half hr b4 she passed I had to open a windonslightly as it felt so weird and cramped in there, I said is he her (my dad) she nodded smiled took a massive in breath and was like a whoosh feeling in the room and she was gone, within minutes the room felt empty was a very strange but an incredible experience. I was doubting the "loved one will come for you' whist watching my mum gasp for breath but what we witnessed in that room that night restored my faith, 

Thank you x