Hi Ginga

I lost my husband just over 2yrs ago this was sudden so quite a shock. I also have two amazing children aged 18 and 20 . I try not to think about the future you have to think about the day and try and love life which is extremely hard but I know that they would want you to live it for them for you and your children.  I do feel that this is my purpose to keep going for the children  .  It does help going out if you get the chance it's a big step but if you have good friends they will look after you. I have got an amazing puppy well she is 2 now she is my security  blanket she helps me so much . 
your not alone 

Victoria x

Hi Ginga

I lost my husband just over 2yrs ago this was sudden so quite a shock. I also have two amazing children aged 18 and 20 . I try not to think about the future you have to think about the day and try and love life which is extremely hard but I know that they would want you to live it for them for you and your children.  I do feel that this is my purpose to keep going for the children  .  It does help going out if you get the chance it's a big step but if you have good friends they will look after you. I have got an amazing puppy well she is 2 now she is my security  blanket she helps me so much . 
your not alone 

Victoria x

Hi, thankyou so much for your message.You are right about the children, they are the only thing keeping me going at the moment. So glad you have a dog, rhey are fantastic aren't they, we had one for 12yrs but she sadly passed away 2 yrs ago.I would love another one that was one thing my wife told me to do, but work commitments don't suit at present.You are right about getting out but i hadn't realised how couples based society is.I hope you have many fantastic walks with your puppy, all the best and take care.