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Signs from loved ones who passed

Charlene85
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I lost my Dad in Feb 2021 from Cancer he suffered with for 2 years he was 51 years old when he passed away leaving his wife and 5 children and 9 grandchildren along with brothers, sisters and a mother and great friends.

My Dad died 18th Feb 2021 and I never felt a thing I was sad I was the oldest and I adored my Dad he was my favourite person in the world and managed to walk me down the aile August 2020. When he died in hospital never felt it like I thought I would. I got a call around 1pm to say he passed away so I drove to hospital and seen him in a room alone it broke me but still i never felt like he was there or nothing like a sign.

I am very skeptical I always have been I believe in supernatural but I am also very level headed I think scientific before supernatural.

I always said to my Dad if you go before me or do then go to a medium or clairvoyant and say ghe words we both know.

The day after my Dads funeral I noticed a picture in my hallway of me and my Dad had moved, It was turned round to face the bathroom instead of the door. I never thought anything of it till I move it back and 2 days later seen it had moved again I then thought that's strange but again moved it back 2 days later again I fell out with Alan and was so upset I cried on the stairs and that was when I seen the photo turned for the third time I seen it.

I have also seen 5pence piece all over which I didn't think anything of till my best friend asked if i had seen a 5pence piece i thought it was strange she asked as i did that day only thought it was random as was in the fruit bowl and the very next day a 5pence piece was on my passenger seat of my car and every day since i find a very random 5 pence piece and also since his death a magpie everyday which is so strange its now June.

Please can someone tell me if its a sign or just me wanting it to be?

I would love to read your storys.

  • Offline in reply to cazrosie

    I know Cazrosie! It truly was amazing. All that kind of thing is quite alien to me really. Never believed in any of it. Nor took much notice of others telling me stuff like it. But then.... in steps my mum big time!!!  Her hand in mine.. the ring.  Gobsmacked by it. Still am really!! X x 

  • Offline in reply to MrsM21

    Thats beyond lovely to read i also interested in this kind of thing and obviously more so since my Dad passed I just felt i needed a sign to help deal with it. Its funny cause when he was poorly I said Dad if anything happens to you or me please go to someone like a medium I will too and the code word it.... something he calls me and has for years and I'm waiting to hear them words I think ill just feel so much weight lifted from my shoulders.

    I hope you now feel comfort and thank you for sharing  

  • Offline in reply to kebb

    Mrsm21, Kebb and Cazrosie can this feed be shared to get more lovely stories?

  • Offline in reply to Charlene85

    Charlene 85

    I don't mind if my story is shared. 
     

    K x 

  • Offline in reply to Charlene85

    I don't think so.

    Was thinking too, they say that often our loved ones visit us in our dreams so they don't frighten us. A few months after my sister died I had a really vivid dream about her where she told me she was fine and wasn't far away but was somewhere I couldn't see her. I find I dream about her when I'm struggling in life.

  • Offline in reply to Charlene85

    I hope you get your code word soon, lots of love to you xxxx

  • Offline in reply to cazrosie

    Sorry I have not been on for a long time but this is lovely to read thank you I hope you are doing ok Xx

  • Offline in reply to Charlene85

    Hi Charlene,

    How are you doing? I read your father passed away and I am sorry for your loss. I am completely devastated at the loss of both my parents withint 6 months of last year - both cancer, both covid, they died in the same awful, awful covid ward.

    Have you noticed any signs from your Dad recently? I am desperate for signs. I've had odd things I have noticed. Our grandmother clock at the top of the stairs (which was my Mum's favourite item, she used to love winding it up with the key) stopped about a week after she passed, the pendulum was still ticking but the hands had stopped (never happened before in 8 years) and it had stopped at the exact time she passed away which made me think it was her, a few months later when I was having a really emotional day it happened again, exact time it stopped.

    I feel my head being tickled whenever I'm really emotional and talking out loud to her. That never happened before in my life, maybe I'm making it happen, I don't know but its like she is touching my hair which she did use to do.

    The last thing was a few weeks after she passed away I was in the kitchen and I saw a bright light shape of my height walk pass the kitchen window and again past the kitchen door window. I thought someone was out in our conservatory so I opened the door, no-one there. The only person I told was my partner. A week later I had a mediumship reading, just out of curiosity, she said she could see me in my kitchen and I was freaked out because I saw a white shape walk pass my kitchen window and door, she wanted to let me know it was my Mum showing me a sign. How could she possibly know this? She couldn't and it was so specific. I haven't seen many feathers, or birds or anything like that but I am still hoping for signs.

    Jane x

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