My sister died 6 weeks before I gave birth to my youngest son. Before she died I had started to put the cot together but only got half way through.  I didn't go back to it until a week or so after my sister had died and found that all the really long screws had gone missing. I searched everywhere but couldn't find them.  I did ask my sister out loud to please put them back.  When I next went into the room, the screws were sitting in the extact place I had first left them! I always ask her to help me when things go missing and I find those things just turn up! When I gave birth and when my other sister did, a few years later, we both had a tap in the birthing room, turn on by itself. I truly believe that was her way of telling us she was there. I have also been to see psychics who have told me things about me and my sister that they couldn't have found out by trawling fb or googling my name! I have tried to put things down to fact but I believe that if a sign gives you comfort, by thinking it is your loved one, then hold on to that. 

Sorry I have not been on for a long time but this is lovely to read thank you I hope you are doing ok Xx

Hi Charlene,

How are you doing? I read your father passed away and I am sorry for your loss. I am completely devastated at the loss of both my parents withint 6 months of last year - both cancer, both covid, they died in the same awful, awful covid ward.

Have you noticed any signs from your Dad recently? I am desperate for signs. I've had odd things I have noticed. Our grandmother clock at the top of the stairs (which was my Mum's favourite item, she used to love winding it up with the key) stopped about a week after she passed, the pendulum was still ticking but the hands had stopped (never happened before in 8 years) and it had stopped at the exact time she passed away which made me think it was her, a few months later when I was having a really emotional day it happened again, exact time it stopped.

I feel my head being tickled whenever I'm really emotional and talking out loud to her. That never happened before in my life, maybe I'm making it happen, I don't know but its like she is touching my hair which she did use to do.

The last thing was a few weeks after she passed away I was in the kitchen and I saw a bright light shape of my height walk pass the kitchen window and again past the kitchen door window. I thought someone was out in our conservatory so I opened the door, no-one there. The only person I told was my partner. A week later I had a mediumship reading, just out of curiosity, she said she could see me in my kitchen and I was freaked out because I saw a white shape walk pass my kitchen window and door, she wanted to let me know it was my Mum showing me a sign. How could she possibly know this? She couldn't and it was so specific. I haven't seen many feathers, or birds or anything like that but I am still hoping for signs.

Jane x

Hi Charlene,

How are you doing? I read your father passed away and I am sorry for your loss. I am completely devastated at the loss of both my parents withint 6 months of last year - both cancer, both covid, they died in the same awful, awful covid ward.

Have you noticed any signs from your Dad recently? I am desperate for signs. I've had odd things I have noticed. Our grandmother clock at the top of the stairs (which was my Mum's favourite item, she used to love winding it up with the key) stopped about a week after she passed, the pendulum was still ticking but the hands had stopped (never happened before in 8 years) and it had stopped at the exact time she passed away which made me think it was her, a few months later when I was having a really emotional day it happened again, exact time it stopped.

I feel my head being tickled whenever I'm really emotional and talking out loud to her. That never happened before in my life, maybe I'm making it happen, I don't know but its like she is touching my hair which she did use to do.

The last thing was a few weeks after she passed away I was in the kitchen and I saw a bright light shape of my height walk pass the kitchen window and again past the kitchen door window. I thought someone was out in our conservatory so I opened the door, no-one there. The only person I told was my partner. A week later I had a mediumship reading, just out of curiosity, she said she could see me in my kitchen and I was freaked out because I saw a white shape walk pass my kitchen window and door, she wanted to let me know it was my Mum showing me a sign. How could she possibly know this? She couldn't and it was so specific. I haven't seen many feathers, or birds or anything like that but I am still hoping for signs.

Jane x

Hello Jane,

Lovely to read your story its just little signs that only you know that are amazing I think!

Funny today I was cleaning the paving in the garden to get furniture out and I found a 5 pence piece but it was a plastic one I often find them but not sure it's my Dad anymore but I think the garden one today may have been I just laughed.

I cant feel him anymore and no signs.

I use to dyhidrate myself to try dream of him vividly which was crazy but I want to do it again to try to connect.

I hope you are well and what an amazing sign Xxx

Hello Charlene85, 

Those little signs are lovely and clearly give you a lot of comfort like the 5 pence plastic piece. Well done for getting the furniture out in the garden, I should do the same! I am sorry though that you are not seeing many signs at the moment and I hope that you will dream of him again soon.

Please do not dehydrate yourself though to try and dream of him vividly as this won't necessarily have the desired effect or be good for you as it could  be harmful to your health and wellbeing. I am sure you will be able to connect with him again naturally before too long without having to cause dehydration to your body and that this is what your dad would have wanted too without a doubt. 

I love reading all your stories of amazing signs :love:

Best wishes, 

Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator