Hi All, im actually on this site has i lost my Husband to cancer aged 57 last June. But in Novemver 2004 i lost my super fit 15 yr old Son, he dropped dead at football practice. He was the fittest in his year.  Because we has 2 younger siblings we were refered to a specialist children's hospital in London. The professor who checked our family out for hereditary conditions said he saw at least 12 families a week like our selfs to super fit people.

You will have seen last week the young footballer that got saved. His heart just stopped but thank god they brought him back.  The reason i mentioned all this is to say its horrific and for the first two years i was zombified, functioned but not there if ya can understand. Its been 16 years and i still think of him everyday. But it does ease off abit but never goes away. 

Me and Ian brought our 2 kids up and learned to enjoy life again. Then he found out he had oesophagus cancer in June 2019 and battled a year. I now live alone and its very lonely 

Take care

Debbie x    

Hi All, im actually on this site has i lost my Husband to cancer aged 57 last June. But in Novemver 2004 i lost my super fit 15 yr old Son, he dropped dead at football practice. He was the fittest in his year.  Because we has 2 younger siblings we were refered to a specialist children's hospital in London. The professor who checked our family out for hereditary conditions said he saw at least 12 families a week like our selfs to super fit people.

You will have seen last week the young footballer that got saved. His heart just stopped but thank god they brought him back.  The reason i mentioned all this is to say its horrific and for the first two years i was zombified, functioned but not there if ya can understand. Its been 16 years and i still think of him everyday. But it does ease off abit but never goes away. 

Me and Ian brought our 2 kids up and learned to enjoy life again. Then he found out he had oesophagus cancer in June 2019 and battled a year. I now live alone and its very lonely 

Take care

Debbie x