6 weeks in and am feeling so bad I just miss my husband so much, am alone in the house and I just don't know how to be without him, or if I want to be without him
So so sorry your going through this heartbraking time at the moment.... but please be kind to yourself ... it's still raw grief and will be for a long time ... it's o.k not to be o.k ... your not alone, many here have been where you are now ... and the covid and lock downs have made life even harder ...
Give yourself permission to feel these feelings ... once you realise it's a part of loosing someone you loved very much and there's no easy way through ... try to just get through today ... one day at a time .. reach out to anyone ... ask about councilling.... you may need to talk about everything ...
Just know here you can vent and chat and say all those things your feeling ... wer all going through cancer or grieving over those loved ones we've lost ... you'll always find a hand to hold here ... Chrissie x
I just go around the house and see his photos and it breaks my heart, I just don't know how I am supposed to feel, I want to sit and be by myself, I don't feel lonely I just hate being here without him! I have a 29yr old daughter who has a 1 yr old baby, and a 25yr old son who is doing a masters and PHD, I feel sad for them when I look at them they need him.I don't know how to help them.
Hello I'm sorry for your loss I know exactly how you feel about being alone at home looking at photos et cetera I have two young children to look after which to be honest to help me get through this here you want to chat
Even though our kids are adults now, I know they still need me, I am trying to be strong for them when really I just want to pull the duvet over my head and stay there!
