Hi ... oh my, that's beond crule ... cancer knows no bounds ... 

I'd say just go with however you feel at the time .. no mater what people say, there's no "normal" grief .. I found it comes in waves ... like standing on the shore line with your back to the sea ... and the wave can catch you just when wer not expecting it ... and every emotion can come and go ... from numb to angry to calm to panic ... everyone feels these emotions , just not in the same order ..

We lost our Jess a couple of months ago, my 18 year old granddaughter to acute myeloid leukaemia ... and I'm getting waves as well ... O.k one minute ... then like now, she would have been 19 this Friday.. so l know that cancer doesn't care what age we are ... 

So hold on in there ... know your just mourning your own way ... but know those waves may take you when your not looking ... sending you a vertual hug.... Chrissie x 

Hi ... oh my, that's beond crule ... cancer knows no bounds ... 

I'd say just go with however you feel at the time .. no mater what people say, there's no "normal" grief .. I found it comes in waves ... like standing on the shore line with your back to the sea ... and the wave can catch you just when wer not expecting it ... and every emotion can come and go ... from numb to angry to calm to panic ... everyone feels these emotions , just not in the same order ..

We lost our Jess a couple of months ago, my 18 year old granddaughter to acute myeloid leukaemia ... and I'm getting waves as well ... O.k one minute ... then like now, she would have been 19 this Friday.. so l know that cancer doesn't care what age we are ... 

So hold on in there ... know your just mourning your own way ... but know those waves may take you when your not looking ... sending you a vertual hug.... Chrissie x