Hello mate I'm so sorry for your loss it's horrible cancer I lost my wife to breast cancer the 22nd of December last year she left me a nine-year-old and a two-year-old to look after it's tough I understand what you mean by feeling empty i'm the same i'm here if you fancy a chat

Hi,  that must be so hard having  young children as well. I don't know how people cope with the feeling of injustice and loss it is  just so overwhelming how do you find the strength to pull through . 

Yes I am sure we all did what people would say are silly things but when you do them they are quirky and fun  it just so upsetting that when you realise they are no more and that relationship is over and whatever you do it will never come back. I am going to have no one staying with me for a while I think I need to grieve on my own I have not been alone since my partner passed away and I feel i need my own time with my own thoughts to get ready for the awful time next week of her funeral which after her passing  is going to be the hardest day of my life. And I have no idea why people say it will get easier after the funeral do they think I am going to forget the person who for 23yrs has been next to me every day and supported through everything. 

Hi mate how are you today? Just thought I'd check in to say hi

Not so good first day alone in the flat since I lost her. Went out for a drive and just started shouting thought if I shouted louder for her she would hear me . Just think when she was here did I really appreciate everything she done for me did I forget to tell her things that would have made her feel better now I will never get to tell , I keep talking to her maybe she can still hear me just maybe she is still here. Enough its not all about me how are you today? 

 I'm the same emotions up-anddown mostly down! I've lost my best friend my lover mummy everything I am getting through the days I talk to her all the time I'm sure she can hear life is just not the same but somehow we have to move forward! I understand what you're saying about did you say that to them did you tell him how much you love them did you tell them how much you appreciate everything they do I always told my wife I love her What did I ever realise how muchshe did with the children while I was at work not a chance she was just so good and I really really want her back but it's never going to happen

Bad day today 1 week today when I lost the love of my life. Think I sunk lower today then I have ever been just keep asking her questions hopefully one day she will answer me back.

 It's going to get harder each day mate I'm not gonna lie  You're just at the start  i'm only two months in front but honestly feel just the same as you you can't give up one day at a time

Thanks for being honest I am fed up with people who keep saying it will get easier in time.

I get that to mate  I've had a hard day it's silly things like putting my little boy in the bath Getting him dry all the things we used to do together why do my children have to suffer with all of this let alone myself what have we ever done so wrong what is my wife have I done so wrong! I guess one day I'll stop asking that question because I'm never gonna find out the truth all you Gotta do is keep thinking she can hear you and talk to her

Sorry you had a hard day seems every day is hard,  think it will be for a very long time  in fact I can't see when it will ever get easier i don't see how it can when you lose someone so special there will never be anything that can replace what you have lost.  I am still waiting for a sign so I know she is with me I think she is sometimes I have an overwhelming feeling of her presence i like to think she is checking up on me .

Hi mate  it's a very slow process it really is just a matter of one day at a time trying to get through it ! Losing that special person in your life is horrible especially at a young age? I really wish this wasn't happening and it was just some bad dream but obviously it's not it's real life which sucks I get to keep my life but my wife had to die so unfair I hate cancer so much

in time you will get signs Maybe the electrics are flickering your house lights to go on and off your Fanny to go crazy that happened to me my phone was going crazy had pictures on from about four years ago right at the top of my memory screen how did that happen? We also see a little white feathers falling sometimes right on top of us! Eventually I'll get the visitation dreams i've had to the first one she was talking telling me everything is all okay that's all love me forever and those that I love her and she will always be with us! Then the second time she was just like a picture look absolutely gorgeous in pain no cancer nothing All that was ever so comforting I hope to get more!! But obviously what I really want I can never have again until it's my time then I will be able to see you again for ever  

Hi mate  it's a very slow process it really is just a matter of one day at a time trying to get through it ! Losing that special person in your life is horrible especially at a young age? I really wish this wasn't happening and it was just some bad dream but obviously it's not it's real life which sucks I get to keep my life but my wife had to die so unfair I hate cancer so much

in time you will get signs Maybe the electrics are flickering your house lights to go on and off your Fanny to go crazy that happened to me my phone was going crazy had pictures on from about four years ago right at the top of my memory screen how did that happen? We also see a little white feathers falling sometimes right on top of us! Eventually I'll get the visitation dreams i've had to the first one she was talking telling me everything is all okay that's all love me forever and those that I love her and she will always be with us! Then the second time she was just like a picture look absolutely gorgeous in pain no cancer nothing All that was ever so comforting I hope to get more!! But obviously what I really want I can never have again until it's my time then I will be able to see you again for ever