Meeting up with people who have lost loved one

I lost my wife to cancer recently and I have never felt so alone. I am experiencing all kinds of extreme emotions from grief to guilt. I really want to connect and talk to others who have been through this terrible period.

  • Thank you wish I could understand and Believe like you are I so want to believe  your right that I will get back to her( I know what you mean about your actions in case she is watching  I'm the same)  just not good with heaven  if she can see us ( I want her to ) how can she be happy and at piece  also do they know there dead . If she has to wate 40 years for me how can that be heaven? 

  • We both believed that physically our bodies were just vessels for our true selves, our unique personalities and energy of life. 

    So it is not death really only for the body.

    We will be with each again either in the spiritual domain or in new physical vessels.

    We weren't really into heaven and hell to be honest.

    So that was our reality but it doesn't make the loss any easier.

    But we will know each other again.

    Xx

  • I'm going to try thinking that way even writing this I want to see her  and kiss her again x

  • You can embrace and kiss her anytime - just ask for her and she will come xx

  • Last night I sensed somehow that Rossella was next to me and I took her hand in the spiritual domain . I just felt she was there.

    Just like the green feather we found a couple days ago in the kitchen - a message.

    FEATHERS APPEAR WHEN ANGELS ARE NEAR: WHAT IS THE MEANING OF FINDING FEATHERS?

    Posted on July 3, 2015 by sbadmin

    Although our Angels are always near us, looking over us and protecting us, we very rarely know that they are there. Sometimes, our Angels will send us small signs and signals to let us know that they are near, and will always be there to love and support us. These signs can be anything from a subtle flash of light, a rainbow on a gloomy day, or even an unexpected, sudden feeling of love and warmth within you.

    One of the ultimate signs your Angels are with you is finding a feather. Coming across a feather in your path, or finding a feather in an unexpected place is thought to be a message from the Angels.

    Your Angels will use feathers of all different shapes and colours to offer you comfort or validation when you need it most. Feathers could also be a clue to an answer you have been looking for, or even a message to tell you you’re on the correct path.

    Xx

  • Hi

    I'm so sorry to hear you feel so alone. My father died this morning from Cancer only found out he had it 5th jan after a long battle to get dad to a doctor / hospital.

    i feel your pain there must be a support Forum? Would also be interested in joining ....

     

  • I am really really sorry - I hope you had the chance to say the things to him that you needed to say before he passed.

    To be honest I am using this thread as a kind of forum.

    It is helping me to talk about things happening to me.

    Yes the pain is deep and unbearable at times but I feel I get a relief here talking with those who know this pain too.

    I am happy to share with you if you like?

    I am not part of any other support forum.

    Xx

  • I am with you on that, since Ian passed i often step out and see a white feather never noticed before!

    Great funeral songs you've chosen, try and keep strong you will get through it,a day at a time 

    take care