My loss

My husband and I had isolated for fourteen weeks my husband had altzheimers dementia but still had a good quality of life so we went on holiday down to Cornwall in a cottage we had been there a week when my husband was taken poorly he was taken into hospital I was unable to be with him  because of covid  he did not pass of covid he had pneumonia  I was not with him when he passed away and the pain I feel from this is unbearable  I just cry everyday  I'm finding it so difficult to believe I will never see him again  we were married over thirty years  the lonely Ness is terrible  I have our beautiful border collie  which I am so grateful for  I do believe  in God  and hope that when my time comes we will be together  I try to think positive he passed  9 weeks ago now but seems like yesterday.... 

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  • Hello Candylucy

    I'm sorry to hear that your husband passed away recently. From your post it sounds as if you loved him very much and I'm sure it's been a very difficult time for you. I'm so glad you have your collie for company; I'm sure he/she has been a great comfort to you during this time. 

    The thoughts and feelings that you describe in your post are very natural ones to experience after the loss of a loved one. You might find it helpful to have a look at the Cruse website and to get in touch with them for some bereavement support. I'm sure that talking to someone will help during these difficult times. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator

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  • Hello Candylucy

    I'm sorry to hear that your husband passed away recently. From your post it sounds as if you loved him very much and I'm sure it's been a very difficult time for you. I'm so glad you have your collie for company; I'm sure he/she has been a great comfort to you during this time. 

    The thoughts and feelings that you describe in your post are very natural ones to experience after the loss of a loved one. You might find it helpful to have a look at the Cruse website and to get in touch with them for some bereavement support. I'm sure that talking to someone will help during these difficult times. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator

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