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I cannot accept it

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Hi,

My beautiful and caring mother passed away on 02 Sep 2020. She had a short battle with an agressive form of breast cancer.

I was in a fortunate position where I was able to become her full-time carer during her last few months with us. It was difficult and upsetting but I would do it all again. Watching her suffer was the hardest thing I've ever done.

I'm angry about cancer - it ROBBED my mum of everything.

I miss her so much.

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    Hi,

    I am so very sorry for the loss of your mum, and feel for you greatly. How comforting for her it must have been to have you to care for her through to the end. You are so brave to have been able to have done that. I am sure that would have meant so much to her. I see that you are very recently bereaved and it will take time to come to terms and accept your loss. Please be kind to yourself while you are grieving and please be sure to reach out for support while you come to terms. You ensured your mum was comforted and supported during her fight with cancer, so, I am sure she would not want you to suffer in silence with your grief. Take good care of yourself, and I send you the most heartfelt of condolences. 

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    Hi,

    I am so very sorry for the loss of your mum, and feel for you greatly. How comforting for her it must have been to have you to care for her through to the end. You are so brave to have been able to have done that. I am sure that would have meant so much to her. I see that you are very recently bereaved and it will take time to come to terms and accept your loss. Please be kind to yourself while you are grieving and please be sure to reach out for support while you come to terms. You ensured your mum was comforted and supported during her fight with cancer, so, I am sure she would not want you to suffer in silence with your grief. Take good care of yourself, and I send you the most heartfelt of condolences. 

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