Hi there ...so so sorry your going through this heartbraking time at the moment.... what a journey you have both been on ...

You didn't loose your wife... she's right there tucked up safely in your heart.... you carry her with you .. and when you see your children, they are half of you both ... so there you are again ... I'm sure she would want you to carry on, and keep an eye on your children ... 

It's like a book of life ... she was a huge chapter in that book .. now you are making a new one .. a new normal .. but you can always go back and read (remember) those chapters  ... there's so many on here,going through that pain ... and a lot more will follow ... you could hold their hands too, when you feel a little stronger ...

We learn to live with our pain ... but we never stop missing them ... know your not alone ... Chrissie x

Hi there ...so so sorry your going through this heartbraking time at the moment.... what a journey you have both been on ...

You didn't loose your wife... she's right there tucked up safely in your heart.... you carry her with you .. and when you see your children, they are half of you both ... so there you are again ... I'm sure she would want you to carry on, and keep an eye on your children ... 

It's like a book of life ... she was a huge chapter in that book .. now you are making a new one .. a new normal .. but you can always go back and read (remember) those chapters  ... there's so many on here,going through that pain ... and a lot more will follow ... you could hold their hands too, when you feel a little stronger ...

We learn to live with our pain ... but we never stop missing them ... know your not alone ... Chrissie x

Thx for your positive reply. I know there are lots of people in my situation but its still hard not to just think of yourself at the moment i hope you can  stay as healthy and positive as possible good luck foe the future.

Chrissie,

That was such a lovely post and something I couldn't have written. 

Chris