My beautiful wife

I'm finding things so hard now without my wife at my side she passed on 23/08/2020 after a short time of only 7 weeks knowing she had cancer feels like I've been robbed of her and my world seems empty now I can't really cry as my children need me to be strong for them but I can't keep asking why a 54 year old was taken so quick I sit at home talking to her still as if she is there with me hardest thing is she was so brave through it all trying to protect me and the children from hurt she even held my hand and said ''don't worry we will be ok and I will fight this as hard as I can''and she did right up to the end she died at home with myself and the children holding her I know it's still early yet but I'm missing her so so much 

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  • So sorry for your loss

    my husband died in June he was 57, cancer is so cruel and he fought till the end.

    I feel so lonely without him here, its horrendous so i know exactly how you are feeling. 

    Take care  

     

  • So sorry for your loss

     

    it is so hard been 4 weeks now since my wife died aged 54 and yes it's very cruel I know how you feel when you say your lonely as I am also , 

    miss simple little things we used to do or that chat after I came in from work all seem minor but mean the world when you can't do them 

     

    take care

  • Hi,

    Just wondering how you are? Im just about coping take one day at a time. Going back to work as helped me alot. Still cant get use to him not been here when i get home. Pull on the drive and the house is in darkness then it hits me, Glad christmas is over i was dreading it, cant wait for lighter nights and better weather so i can walk more. 

    Take care

    Debbie x

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  • Hi,

    Just wondering how you are? Im just about coping take one day at a time. Going back to work as helped me alot. Still cant get use to him not been here when i get home. Pull on the drive and the house is in darkness then it hits me, Glad christmas is over i was dreading it, cant wait for lighter nights and better weather so i can walk more. 

    Take care

    Debbie x

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  • Hi Debbie 

    yes I'm doing ok well if that's what you call it I understand the coming home to empty dark house in the evenings I'm so pleased Xmas has gone it was hard and emotional at times I look forward also to the lighter nights as then can do more how are you coping hope your doing as well as you can be under the circumstances lockdown ain't really helping matters but I know it's for the best for everyone always feel free to contact me if you want a chat or rant I can forward my email if you like or I'm on face book feel free to add me or send a message through there anytime