So I lost my mum at the end of October last year.
Three months previous she was told that the cancer that had started in her pancreas after a successful operation is now clear, go home and drink champagne they said.
However three months later it was back in her liver, this also caused liver failure, she was then told she only had weeks to live, which turned out to be spot on as she only had three weeks in total. Now after a few months I'm left with constant doubt in my mind did the doctors miss something? Or does it genuinely come back this fast like they kept telling us. It just seems that my mum went through a massive operation and chemo only to be how I feel let down in the end, and I keep thinking if mum was alive now she would tell me that she was let down in the end, how do you even go about finding out if anything was missed in previous scans and MDT meetings. Has anyone else done this, or is it simply I just can't accept what's happened.?
thanks
