Partner buried yesterday

Offline Lisanw over 6 years ago

Sorry if this post is already on here

My partner of 21 years was buried yesterday

I can't cope he died when I was at work we did not know he was I'll turned out he had lung Cancer it is killing me that he was alone freighted and not knowing what happened

Also feel guilty that I could not get him to stop smoking I know it was his choice

I cry and scream every night holding his dressing gown I have no children to focus on and can't face life without my best friend soul mate and love of my life

Offline Lisanw over 6 years ago in reply to Paulus

Hi thank you for taking the time to reply
What happened my partner was not aware that he had lung cancer and called an ambulance due to heavy vomiting blood and died at home the heavy bleeding contributed to his death
Still blame myself for not making him go to the gp sooner but he was very stubborn
I will be looking into counselling and 24 hours a day I've been talking and crying about my Nigel
Once again thank you for your reply
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Offline Amyh92 over 6 years ago

Sending strength, love and warmth to your heart
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Offline Paulus over 6 years ago in reply to Lisanw

Ime afraid we men are the worst how can it be your fault you may feel that way at the moment but we are responsible for our own health hard as it sounds dont reproach yourself to stop someone smoking if they dont want to is pretty much impossible .cancer realy is so sneaky it hides then it hits you and there are 200 types but you will sort it out in your mind just hang on in there .paul
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Offline Lisanw over 6 years ago in reply to Amyh92

Thank you for your thoughts
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