Dreamt my mum was alive

I've just woke from a hard dream that I couldn't make sense of at first. 
we lost my mum last April 2018 she was diagnosed in the June with metastatic breast cancer and by the April it had spread to her brain. (We didn't know this until her last two weeks in hospital) she was only meant to be in hospital to get better from dehydration from steroids. 

anyway, I dreamt last night that she was alive but I couldn't see her. I could phone her but when I phoned it was a carer who was looking after her. I could hear my mum mumble in the background and the carer would tell me what she had fed her etc that day. 
when I woke this morning I was so confused searching the internet for answers and then it came to me it's as if she was showing me what life would've been like if she was still here with the brain tumour. As hard a dream it was and as upset as I am right now she's still here in some way to show me everything is okay. She was only 53 when she passed. 

  • Hello lovely, 

    The dreams are very confusing aren't they. Its 6 months this week since my Mum died and I still have dreams she's alive. The mornings are tough, but then so are the evenings. I hope the dream was a sign from your Mum, I have had a few from mine, when she first passed, but not so many anymore. 
    I've no doubt that our Mums are all around us all the time, sometimes I talk to mine and I can almost hear what she would say as a response. 53 is very young, mine was 61. Sorry you're going through this. Can I ask how you are coping with the holidays? This is my first and it's such a struggle!

    Katie

    xxx

     

  • Last year I just kept busy we went a holiday the start of December and I have a little girl so she kept us busy. We didn't do Christmas the same as we always done it we went to my brothers house instead of having it at ours. Sometimes changing it up a little bit helps everyone around you will be so supportive. We also sent a balloon up to heaven for my little girl to her nanny that was a nice way of including her. It'll never be an easy time of year for you but you've just got to keep in mind she will always be there in spirit xx

  • Yes it'll always be tough. I think thats what I find so difficult is that it never goes away and it will always be painful. Thought I'd message to say I dreamt of my Mum last night. I was writing her a letter and asking why I hadn't seen her for so long. She was really close to me and I could feel her presence around me. Very sad to wake up. The dreams can be tough sometimes!

  • Hi theres a lot have these dreams seams to be a way of contact theres a post on here from sarapine 8 its heading is somthing like see sighns after loss of loved ones  theres lots of replys you may find it a comfort its definatly interesting ive had all sorts of things happen i think maybe our physical bodies wear out but the energy that is us is still there like any energy we know its there we just cant see it c if you can find it and have a read best wishs paul