All you can do is keep her company when she wants it you dont have to say anything just be there try and get her out for walks in the park maybe take some food or a takaway so she dosnt have to cook but be as you are and have been she will get through it but takes time some it take years otheres no time at all just be youself dont say ring if you need anything thats a cop out a lot use . Just ring and say ime coming over big diffrence there.p