Totally agree with you 

I know how you feel ......l cry most nights this thing took my wife to early we had so many plans & puff just gone up in smoke :( l loved her so much & my daughter tries her best to cheer me up but nothing seems to help, Sandie passed on the 19nov 2020 l cannot tell you how that feels as you know with Paul.

l call out most nights just to get in touch let me know she's safe but nothing but emptyness she was 63 years old still full of life & so much to look forward to were do l go from here

The way I see things there is no ghost it's just going to be like it was before you was born but then again I have thought that maybe there is but you just float round like your some orb made out of electrical charges

Hi, 

My deepest sympathies go out to you, I have also suffered massive family loss in the space of 2 years mainly different types of cancer.

I lost my dear grandad last year, 2 months later I lost my beloved partner of almost ten years and then 2 months (almost to the day) our gorgeous very elderly dog died too, she would have been turning 20.

Myself and my partner spoke about the what ifs around a year before he died as he had an extremely rare condition that sadly gave him a lifespan of 40-50 years (he was 3 months shy of his 41st when he died). I had mentioned this lady I wanted to see after the loss of one of my close uncles from cancer but my partner said “there a waste of money”......however after I lost my partner, I went and saw this lady around 4 months later. I have no social media, I didn’t give her my name (she still don’t know it) and I used my mums mobile to text her and arrange it. I told this lady absolutely nothing at all yet the things that she’s told me and spoke to me about absolutely blew me away.....things only me and my partner knew, she told me what he done for a living, told me his favourite meal, gave me a rough description of him (which was spot on) she gave me a number of loved ones names and details of ill health etc it was all spot on, she also asked if I had got a new car or was getting one - she was not wrong (I placed an order). She mentioned my dads uncle (and gave me his name) and said how he lived on a farm with lots of chickens.....I asked my dad later on and he was gobsmacked and asked how I knew or who had told me.

I asked the lady if I could record the whole thing to which she very kindly agreed and I still have it to look back on. I will most definitely be booking to see her again, she cost £35 for 45-60 mins and it’s probably the best money Iv ever spent.

I do fully believe there is something after death and I want you to know that your fiancé is and always will be around you. He will live on in your child and in your heart.

Im more than happy to chat further via message thingy if you would like x

I am sorry to be blunt, but no one can speak to the dead.  People who claim to do so are always charlatans.  They use a technique called cold reading, picking up on subtle, often subconscious, clues from the client.  Cold reading long pre-dates social media. 

For more specific information, check out the Wikipedia article: Cold Reading.

wish i had this gift but sadly dont, i think i saw things when i was a young girl but was so scared i hid under the covers, i felt people sitting in my bed, it got so bad i used to hide under mum and dads bed with my quilt and sleep !!! but as i grew it faded away.. 

must be lovely to have the belief of life after death, when my dad was dying and i was taking care of him i said " dad will you come and let me know your ok ? " he replied yes love i will .... 3 years in Dec this year and still not seen him or had a sign :( 

Like many who have replied here I do agree you should believe what comforts you and gives you hope and strength right now but personally I do believe there is something after death, we don't simply cease to be any more.

My recent experience that made me believe this even more happened last year when I had a breast cancer scare, had 3 biopsies and was told to prepare myself for bad news. We lost our beloved wee dog in 2018, he was a liver and white coloured shih tzu and while I was waiting for biopsy results a pigeon exactly the same colours as him would be sitting constantly on our outside step, when we went out he would hop off and then hop back on again, this went on for well over a week. Then on the day of my results my partner was out at the car and a wee liver and white cat (very unusual I think?) ran up to our front door, sat for a few seconds, then raced back out of the gate and under the car, then into the trees. My partner who doesn't believe in anything spiritual said he knew at that point the results would be ok and thankfully they were benign. I have recently found another breast lump and been referred to breast clinic so I hope my wee angel is looking out for me again.

Just remember the soul is energy and energy cannot die. I took great peace from that, they may be out of sight for now but always with us.

Maggie    xx

Hi,

I just found this thread and would love the contact details for that lady if you were willing to share?  I've recently lost a close family member and would do anything to hear from them.

thanks so much.

Have sent you a private message x