I’m sorry, sending you big hugs. 

I lost my dad 58 a week ago, the funeral is this coming Tuesday. 

I feel so responsible for my mum, she is a strong independent woman, but I can’t bare the thought of her being on her her, night times are the worst. I feel guilty doing anything other than being with her even though she insists we must still have our own lives. 

I think you need to be there for him as much as you can, but take his lead. He might like my mum need and want some time to himself as well. Xx