I lost my partner in October, its a very hard thing to come to terms with. Cancer doesn't just rob its sufferers of their futures it robs partners,spouses, friends and family of their futures too. The future we had planned out with your loved one disappears and it becomes an emptier and scarier place. But life is short and our loved ones wants us to carry on. Now it is raw and feels hopeless, the only thing you can do is take it one day at a time and talk to people and get help, try and stay busy and give yourself to hope. Hope that in the future the pain and loss can be lived with. My condolences and best wishes to you. Remember cancer is common, it imposes itself on millions of us, you are not alone. Billy.

I lost my partner in October, its a very hard thing to come to terms with. Cancer doesn't just rob its sufferers of their futures it robs partners,spouses, friends and family of their futures too. The future we had planned out with your loved one disappears and it becomes an emptier and scarier place. But life is short and our loved ones wants us to carry on. Now it is raw and feels hopeless, the only thing you can do is take it one day at a time and talk to people and get help, try and stay busy and give yourself to hope. Hope that in the future the pain and loss can be lived with. My condolences and best wishes to you. Remember cancer is common, it imposes itself on millions of us, you are not alone. Billy.