Hi ime sorry know one has replyed ive lost mum and dad but some time ago but lost my partner liz six months ago you truely are going through a horrible time and when a new lifes coming i know theres nothing i can say to make you feel better but your not alone someone will come along and chat soon that has had simmiler to you and can share with you so for now you have my best wishs to you and hope your mum is comfortable and the treatment is helping one of the main things with cancer is staying hydrated it is so important yet seems to be forgotten  .paul

Hi there ..

So so sorry , life has really given you a crule time right now .. when it should be so different ... i wish i had words of comfort .. but that pain your feeling must be overwhelming ... I lost both my parents while I was in my 30s ... and felt robbed ... but you know I have felt my mum around over the years .. at times when things got tough ... I believe they watch over us ... 

Hold on to this time with your mum .. my mum was fine one Monday morning .. at 5.20 she'd gone from a heart attack ... I couldn't tell her just how much I loved her and was so proud to have had her as my mum ... you still have a chance to say what's in your heart .. to hug, and share tears ... what I'd have given for just more day ... even an hour ... 

They just live in my heart now ... and no one can take that away .. not even cancer ... so I'm sending you a big vertual hug ... hold on to every moment you get .. those memories will stay with you ... and fingers crossed her treatment will give her extra time ... Chrissie