Hello Lilly1; so very sorry about your situation.  Who would believe life could be so horribly awful to you.  Do you have other close family?  Hopefully your dad will be with you for a good time yet.  If you want to keep us informed about how things are progressing and what you are going through we would be very happy and interested to read about how you are coping with this double blow.  Annie

Hi,  I have a husband who is very supportive. Mum remarried which gave me a brother but dad only has me and my daughter (his granddaughter) . It's hard at the moment to not compare my mum's cancer journey to my dad's and not expect the same outcome, positivity is hard to keep but you have to be to support.  Nobody wants to watch a loved one go through any pain or illness and all wish we could take their pain and suffering away.