Hi ime  so sorry your struggling you said you now want to be alone some people do but do you enjoy being alone thats were your answer lies hope you can chat with me i can listen ime no expert but talking helps .p

Hi lucilu I'm so sorry 4 u loss of u mum . My mother passed away 2 August 17 my heart broken . I think grief affect people in different ways . I feel so angry sometimes and I hate it when I see other people happy . At the moment I can't deal with other people .grief comes in stages . Every day different with me sometimes I struggle so bad with every thing gone on that all I do is cry and I know that not going bring my mother back . But I miss her so much :(  hope u ok u take care x 

Hi Lucilu,

Sorry to hear about your loss, I too have recently lost my sister, and can relate to some of the feelings you are experiencing now, Grief has totally changed me too. If you would like to chat, would be nice to talk to you.

Take Care xx

Hi,

Thank u for ur message... alot of the time i want to be alone but at the same time i feel so alone. It's not my character to not pick up the phone to talk with friends in general as i used to do this all the time but right now it's very rare that i ever do it now. X

Hi there, 

Thank u for ur message. Im sorry to hear about ur sister, u must be hurting so much. Was she ill long? 

I didnt realise how grief would change me but it truly has. I just feel so lost. 

Do u have support?

X

Awww i am sorry for ur loss too and how ur feeling about it all.   It's so hard i know, i knew it would be but didnt think it would change me as a person the way it has.

It really makes u realise ur true friends tho ive found xx

Hi I just send u friend request if u need chat about anything I'm here . Hope u ok take care x 

Hi there i lost the love of my life liz 3 and a half months ago ive also lost mum dad and all my uncles and a grandson 7 years ago so this time i knew what was coming like you i was outgoing cheery guy and i have been in agony and lonelyness i cant describe but i have forced myself to go out it is like you say comfortable and safe at home but if you enjoy being on your own thats fine but if you dont and its just for comfort then thats diffrent who can say how long grief lasts .to you it icould be normal .but i have found slowly that being around happy friendly people a bit rubs off so ever so slightly ive just noticed i feel slightly better but i still have to push myself a bit less .it dosnt mean i dont love and miss liz any less but if shes still whatching i know she would not want me to be hurting .ime a dad of three grown up children and i would want to c all my kids enjoying life .ime just saying what i have done .but i do hope you can get a little joy back in your life eventualy when you are ready .p ps i hope you can relate some of my post to youself and it may help you .

Awww thank u for ur reply and i am so sorry for ur loss. It must be so hard losing ur partner, especially on top of all the other losses uve had!! I am ok on my own but im scared of going too much into myself. Im ok when at work (cos im so busy!!!) And if i have a weekend night out but tge rest of the time, i really dont wanna do anything nor do i phone friends but then i still feel so lonely.

I hope things ease for u x

Hi

Ive accepted that now.

Thank u xx