Hi there, just wanted to say, I'm so very sorry you lost your mum ... life is crule ... and cancer has no compation, it doesn't discriminate... age , young and old, and all those in between ... 

Men are funny creatures sometimes... my ex husband, said to me when my mum died, "everyone has to die sometime" l slept down stairs that night ... my dog layed by my side all through that night , with his head on my lap ... l got more comfort from him then the ex ... think l stopped loving him that day ... but if your husband has lost his mum recently too, it could be that ... so keep an open mind, l hope he comes through for you ...

Try and think of your mum, when she was well, and happy... coz those last memories are such a small part of her life ... l think our mum's would want us to remember the funny, good memories, coz that's who they were ... cancer takes away so much, don't let it take away those early memories ... and she's not gone, she's right there in your heart, and no one can take that away ... you are her ... she made you ...

Sending you a big hug ...   Chrissie

Really sorry to read about your Angel (Mum) I know its really hard at the moment but remember the good times you had with her write down all the good memories you had together and when you feel down have a little read of them it may help and try to chat on here to with people who are going through similar circumstances just to take your mind of it. Take care and try  stay strong for your daughters

Thank u for your kind reply xxx