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Coping with loss I miss my mum so much .

I miss my mum so much .

Offline Natisha over 8 years ago

I lost my mum only a few weeks ago. From bone and lung cancer , only diagnosed in November.

My mum was my world, I told my mum everything and she was always their for me,

I loved her so much and wanted to go with my mum.

Only two weeks on after mums cremation I just struggle every day. I don't want to be around anyone.

My partner is the only person and my two dogs I feel I want.

I caint seem to go back to work as I'm afraid of being around people.

I don't no how to cope or deal with the loss of my mum.

Does anyone have any advice please .

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Offline Andrea69 over 8 years ago

I lost my mum on the 14th May. I haven't greaved for her properly yet as I had to stay strong for my own children and also for her great gran children, I'm told it will get easier in time, I feel empty I side like you my mum was my world she was my best friend, I'm living on auto pilot feeling like I can't cry now, my insides feel empty, one thing that keeps me sane is that my mum is always in the next room and so is yours, you can't see her but if you can close your eyes you can feel her there, she will never be far away, and won't want you to hurt like this she will want you to strong and live your life to the full, I hope you can get through this x
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Offline Andrea69 over 8 years ago

I lost my mum on the 14th May. I haven't greaved for her properly yet as I had to stay strong for my own children and also for her great gran children, I'm told it will get easier in time, I feel empty I side like you my mum was my world she was my best friend, I'm living on auto pilot feeling like I can't cry now, my insides feel empty, one thing that keeps me sane is that my mum is always in the next room and so is yours, you can't see her but if you can close your eyes you can feel her there, she will never be far away, and won't want you to hurt like this she will want you to strong and live your life to the full, I hope you can get through this x
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