Hi Suzy ... There is no time limit on grief and no one grieves exactly the same ... And in my case I accept my mum is not comming back, but l will never stop missing her ... There are so many on here who's mums or dad's are gone, there's not many that don't know what that's like ...

What helped me, was thinking what would mum say if she could see me today .... Sad , proud , happy , and l know she was full of life, kind to everyone , and loved to see us laughing .... So that's what works for me ... Everyone has to find something that helps their heart through this sad time ...

But your mum lives in you ... She's part of you ... She made you ... So look in the mirror and she's there .. sending you a vertual hug ... Chrisie x

Hi Vicky... just a little thought ... my mum never saw her grand kids on my side ... and l was so sad as she so loved my boys ... so what l did, was take their babies to her place, where her ashes were ... and hope she looked down on each one as they came along and just told her all about them  ... 

On fools an horses l remember Dell taking his baby to the window and looking up an talking to his mum ... it was so touching at the time ... but you never know ... so hope you find your piece to Vicky ... big hug to both of you ...