Hi Lisa,

Sorry to read/hear your news,

I lost my beautiful mum to MBC in Feb only 3 weeks after diagnosis, she was the most important person in the world to me and vice versa, true best friends.

Even though some time has passed since Feb, in many ways it is still very raw, I don’t spend every second of everyday crying now like the first couple of months but continually have a lump in the back of my throat and that sinking feeling.

I just turned 27 in November and my mum was 56, similar age to your mum and way too young to be taken away.

Please just know you are not alone and unfortunately there are a lot of us here in the same boat I don’t have kids yet but when I do I pray my mum can see them from where she is.

Feel free to message me on here if you ever want to chat xx

Hi Lisa,

Sorry to read/hear your news,

I lost my beautiful mum to MBC in Feb only 3 weeks after diagnosis, she was the most important person in the world to me and vice versa, true best friends.

Even though some time has passed since Feb, in many ways it is still very raw, I don’t spend every second of everyday crying now like the first couple of months but continually have a lump in the back of my throat and that sinking feeling.

I just turned 27 in November and my mum was 56, similar age to your mum and way too young to be taken away.

Please just know you are not alone and unfortunately there are a lot of us here in the same boat I don’t have kids yet but when I do I pray my mum can see them from where she is.

Feel free to message me on here if you ever want to chat xx

Hi alera,

thank you for your message, I'm so sorry to hear about your mum too, only 3 weeks after diagnosis must have been such a shock, that's just heartbreaking.it's such a cruel world isn't it!! 

Our mums are the most important people in our lives which makes it so difficult now that they are not with us.

like you and your mum,my mum was/is my best friend we did everything  together.

yes that's how I feel at the minute that sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach all day and feel so sad.

everytime I go to visit the cemetery it just doesn't seem real still. I just think why are you in there, you should be here with us still enjoying life.

im sure our mums will be watching down on us, out of pain and fear now. (Not that it makes us feel any better)

i have booked a  reading with a medium soon so I hope my mum comes through to me, I do believe it all that sort of stuff so I think if she told me anything that only I would know about mum that would make me feel much better knowing her spirit is still with me.

i myself am only 30, we are both so young to not have our mums here to help us through life and guide us , reassure us and just be our mums! 

Im always here if u need a chat too. 

lisa x