Sorry to hear about your mum.

If I was in your position. I would, if you can, go back and see your mum it would let you see that she is at rest and peace this would be the last image of her you will see rather than her struggling. 

x

Thank you Linda. 

I am so torn if I should or not. I am struggling with not knowing where she is. Surely that can't just be it? I wish I had more faith in god and believed she is watching me and waiting for me. 

Do you think she is? X

Hello Chrissie

I hope you can find the strength to see your mum for the last time. I realise it will be tremendously hard to do this, but I do not think you will regret it. 

It is a desperately sad and difficult time for you and I wish you all the best

Chris x

Thank you Chris.

will she look like her? Or will she look like she did when she passed? 

I'm  so scared x

It is hard. I lost my mum a number of years ago and though I was scared to visit her in the undertakers, I was glad I did. I think you will regret it if you don't go and see your mum for the last time before the funeral. 

I am not religious but always feel that they are looking down on you.

x

It is hard. I lost my mum a number of years ago and though I was scared to visit her in the undertakers, I was glad I did. I think you will regret it if you don't go and see your mum for the last time before the funeral. 

I am not religious but always feel that they are looking down on you.

x

I think most undertakers do a marvellous job, in my judgement.

Should you go I think you will not regret it.

x