Lost my dad

Hi all

I lost my dad yesterday after a short battle with aml, he was diagnosed after being rushed to hospital on the 1st of March this year.  He then spent the next 3 months in hospital having 2 rounds of intensive chemo and fighting infection after infection.  He was moved to the hospice Tuesday this week and passed yesterday with my mum, myself and my sister by his side.

I feel so lost.... I know he is better off now as he was in a sorry state towards the end, but I just wasn't ready for him to go.  I am glad I was there with him and he knew how loved he was, but I also am struggling with seeing my dad die.  I spent every single day by his side whilst he was away from and woke up this morning feeling like I had no purpose in life.  I would have done the hospital run every day for eternity if it meant I got to keep him.

I miss him so much

Beth

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  • Hi beth

    its just to sad I'm dreading my dads funeral on the 14th July just want it over with. I feel the same I cant believe my big strong dad isn't here. I know he's in a better place but I just want him back. Nothing prepares us for this even when you know it's going to happen it still is the most hardest thing ever. It truly helps being able to talk to someone else going through the same as you know it's normal to feel the way we do

     

    god bless

     

    mary x

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