Hi Lottie, 

I am so sorry to hear about your Dad, he sounds like he was a wonderful man who was an amazing Dad. My Mum has oesophigal cancer too, she was diagnosed last April and told the only thing they could do is put a stent in to help her eat and drink, this last few weeks she has gone down hill, she is on morphene & methadone for pain on a driver. She can't walk and the worst part is she is refusing to see me and my brother and sisters. I don't even know how long she has left. I'm 37, the older out of my brothers and sisters so I feel I have to be strong but it's so hard. 

I'm so sorry to you again, cancer is so evil. 

Hugs to you x

I'm here if you need to talk I'm 37 too and the eldest to my brother ,cancer is so evil now my mates dad is in hospital with lung cancer and it's not looking good such a cruel world we all live in

I'm here if you need to talk I'm 37 too and the eldest to my brother ,cancer is so evil now my mates dad is in hospital with lung cancer and it's not looking good such a cruel world we all live in